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THE HEALING POWER OF TEARS
Dr. Thomas Franz, a professor and an authority on bereavement counseling, says crying is the most natural way to release grief. Ironica...
A PROMISE TO LIVE FULLY, EVEN IN GRIEF
I felt so much a half when you went to Heaven. We had "become one" and remained such a team for so long that I felt literally lost with...
LEARNING TO LEAN ON THE LORD IN THE MIDST OF GRIEF
THANKFUL FOR LOVE AND GODLY LEADERSHIP
It's interesting that the timing of writing these memories came at Thanksgiving. I am so thankf...
THE ENDURING PAIN AND BLESSINGS OF LOVE
The Tennyson quote above has become so linked with grief that it is almost trite. Yet, it holds so much meaning that it doesn't reach t...
YOU CHOSE TO LOVE … AND NOW YOU ARE LOST!
UNDERSTANDING LOSS AND LOVE: REFLECTIONS AFTER THREE YEARS
The title of this blog is one of the first lines in Chapter 1 of the devoti...
OUR FIRST CHRISTMAS IN GRIEF: 2020
SEARCHING FOR JOY IN MEMORIES AND TRADITIONS
I have loved Christmas all my life. It's Jesus’ birthday, and my mother made sure to make...
REFLECTIONS ON THREE YEARS WITHOUT YOU: A JOURNEY OF LOVES, LOSS, AND HEALING
I thought it interesting that the timing of writing our love story/journey came to an end at about the same time as your third year in ...
NAVIGATING OUR FIRST HOLIDAY WITHOUT YOU
Finding New Ways to Celebrate
We were all dreading our first holiday without you. You always brought the fun with your wonderful sense...
OUR LAST DAYS AT HOME: DENIAL, BARGAINING, AND INTENSE GRIEF
The next morning was Sunday, October 18, 2020. You were still with us, and I sensed that you wanted to be in our home to go to be with ...
OUR LAST DAYS IN THE HOSPITAL: GRIEF BEFORE INTENSE GRIEF
After the meeting, I talked to the nurse about preparing to go home. He then realized that I didn't understand or - I know now - couldn...