Susan Rardon
Rose, Ph.D.
The Christmas holiday season brings an added layer of excitement, stress, and complexity to school communities. For school counselors, this time of year demands heightened attention to ethical responsibilities, as the season often amplifies the diverse needs, traditions, and challenges of students and their families. Unlike Thanksgiving, Christmas carries distinct religious, cultural, and commercial implications, creating unique ethical considerations for school counselors. Below are some of the key responsibilities and challenges counselors may face.
While Christmas is widely celebrated, it is primarily a religious holiday rooted in Christian traditions. However, many students and families may not observe Christmas due to different faiths or personal beliefs. Counselors must:
The commercialization of Christmas can exacerbate socioeconomic disparities among students. For families struggling financially, the pressure to meet expectations for gifts or celebrations can lead to stress and shame. Ethical strategies include:
The Christmas season can be a difficult time for students dealing with grief, family instability, or loneliness. Counselors should:
During the Christmas season, students or families may offer gifts to counselors as tokens of appreciation. While these gestures are often genuine, they can blur professional boundaries. Counselors must:
For students who do not celebrate Christmas, this season can feel isolating. School counselors should:
The Christmas season can be emotionally demanding for counselors, who often absorb the stress and challenges of their students and families. To maintain effectiveness, counselors should:
The Christmas season is a time of joy, reflection, and connection, but it also presents unique ethical challenges for school counselors. By upholding principles of inclusivity, sensitivity, and professionalism, counselors can ensure that all students feel valued and supported during this time. Navigating these responsibilities thoughtfully not only enhances the well-being of students and families but also reinforces the vital role of school counselors as ethical and compassionate leaders within their communities.
I am a school counselor turned counselor educator, professor, and author helping educators and parents to build social, emotional, and academic growth in ALL kids! The school counseling blog delivers both advocacy as well as strategies to help you deliver your best school counseling program.
I'm a mother, grandmother, professor, author, and wife (I'll always be his). Until October 20, 2020, I lived with my husband, Robert (Bob) Rose, in Louisville, Ky. On that awful day of October 20,2020, my life profoundly changed, when this amazing man went on to Heaven. After Bob moved to Heaven, I embraced my love of writing as an outlet for grief. Hence, the Grief Blog is my attempt to share what I learned as a Counselor in education with what I am learning through this experience of walking this earth without him. My mission is to help those in grief move forward to see joy beyond this most painful time.
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