Susan Rardon
Rose, Ph.D.
The Thanksgiving holiday is a time of gratitude, reflection, and togetherness, but for school counselors, it can also bring unique ethical challenges. As trusted professionals working at the intersection of education and mental health, school counselors play a pivotal role in supporting students. The holiday season often highlights the diversity of experiences and needs within a school community, making ethical decision-making especially critical. Below are key considerations for maintaining ethical standards during this time.
Thanksgiving is celebrated differently across families and cultures, and for some, it may not be observed at all. School counselors must ensure their practices and conversations respect this diversity. The American School Counselor Association (ASCA) Ethical Standards emphasize the importance of cultural competence.
Counselors should:
Additionally, the growing diversity within many school populations, particularly the increase in Latino or Hispanic communities, highlights the need for cultural awareness. Many Latino families bring rich traditions that may differ from mainstream Thanksgiving celebrations. School counselors should:
Thanksgiving often brings attention to financial hardships, as some families may struggle to afford holiday meals or participate in celebrations. School counselors must navigate these challenges with empathy and discretion. Key strategies include:
The holidays can blur the lines between professional and personal relationships. Students or families may offer gifts or invitations to holiday events as a gesture of gratitude. While well-intentioned, these situations require careful navigation:
Holidays can trigger emotional responses in students, particularly those dealing with grief, family conflict, or instability. School counselors must be prepared to provide support while maintaining ethical practices:
As students share personal experiences or challenges related to the holidays, maintaining confidentiality is paramount. Counselors must:
Finally, counselors must prioritize their own well-being to effectively support others. The Thanksgiving season can be demanding, and ethical lapses are more likely when professionals are overburdened. Self-care practices might include:
The Thanksgiving season is an opportunity for school counselors to model gratitude, compassion, and ethical integrity. By remaining vigilant and thoughtful in their practices, counselors can foster a supportive school environment that respects the diverse needs of all students and families. Upholding ethical standards not only benefits the immediate school community but also reinforces the trust and respect central to the counseling profession.
I am a school counselor turned counselor educator, professor, and author helping educators and parents to build social, emotional, and academic growth in ALL kids! The school counseling blog delivers both advocacy as well as strategies to help you deliver your best school counseling program.
I'm a mother, grandmother, professor, author, and wife (I'll always be his). Until October 20, 2020, I lived with my husband, Robert (Bob) Rose, in Louisville, Ky. On that awful day of October 20,2020, my life profoundly changed, when this amazing man went on to Heaven. After Bob moved to Heaven, I embraced my love of writing as an outlet for grief. Hence, the Grief Blog is my attempt to share what I learned as a Counselor in education with what I am learning through this experience of walking this earth without him. My mission is to help those in grief move forward to see joy beyond this most painful time.
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